Planning for next school year is in progress and all books are ordered. Most of them have already arrived. We start school again in June, but I haven't decided exactly when yet.
Kids have been playing outside, digging a hole in the backyard, and making "pets" out of roly-polies.
I picked our first green beans of the season from our small garden this morning and am looking forward to serving them for dinner. Our garden is also proficiently growing volunteer basil plants. A few other things that we planted are growing, but several seeds didn't sprout this year, so I am hoping to make it to a garden center to get a few extra plants sometime soon.
I've enjoyed having a little extra free time and playing the piano for a short while.
The twins are growing again and Kade likes to get out and crawl or cruise around. Colt doesn't mind staying in the play-yard, but he's only been crawling for a short time.
Even though we don't have school, the kids seem to be getting up earlier in the morning than they were before school ended, so I've been having to enforce our morning quiet time until 7:30. Some children have a harder time being quiet than others :)
Earlier this year I had a short conversation with a seasoned mom who mentioned that her now grown children told her they felt like they were a burden to their mom while they were growing up. She said she never meant to make them feel like that and admitted that she was very busy with normal life, a child with special needs, and getting a home business off the ground. She said she probably had too much on her plate.
As I’ve pondered her words, I’ve prayed that I haven’t made my children feel like they are a burden in my life. If I have made them feel that way I hope that when they are grown they will not remember, unless they also remember that I love them and I worked hard to make them feel like they belong to our family.
What can I do to make sure that my children don’t think they are a burden?
Note: I started writing this post a few months ago and had plans to add scripture to help remind us that the children God has given us are a blessing from him. If God gives a blessing, who am I to undermine him by making my children feel like they aren’t a blessing. Since I've been busy and haven't I wanted to post these thoughts anyway.
My prayer for those of you who read this post is to ponder the idea of how you look at your own children or other family members. Do you treat them like they are a burden or do you strive to enjoy them, no matter how busy you think you are?
This week we've had our break from school. The kids have been enjoying the lovely weather and just having time to play and pursue their own interests. I had a list of things I wanted to work on this week, too, but so far only 1 of the items has been cross off the list. That item was cook bacon. Two other items have been partially completed.
Since it can be discouraging to not get the things done I wanted to do I started making a list of all the things that I did do. It helps a little to see the things I've done with my children on their week off of school and to know that I'm just being a mom and doing what God created me to do. Taking the week off of school means I don't have to teach, but my children still need me and my wishes aren't necessarily something that gets to take first place. Putting aside my selfish desires is hard.
Here's the list of just a few of the things I've done this week:
-went to the library
-went to the playground
-baked cookies with a few of my children
-helped paint shape and race cars (3 days)
-built Lego's with Quinn and Clark
-cleaned part of my desk
-took care of some of the mail pile (4 days)
-read stories to littles
-stayed up late playing peek-a-boo with the twins, because baby laughter is so much fun
-walked to the end of the street and back (4 days)
-played outside x2
-listened to Clark and Quinn signing songs while they were coloring
-made hot chocolate
-got school plans ready for preschool and kindergarten next week
-worked a Sudoku or two every morning while drinking my coffee
-watched a movie with the kids
I'm not ready to start back to school on Monday, but I still have the weekend to hopefully finish getting school plans ready.
I just want to curl up in a corner and cry rather than muddle through whatever we are supposed to be doing. Instead I pray, let the babies scream, wash the dishes, and clean the kids closets (they are helping), while wishing I was brave enough to take eight kids to the grocery store. We are really supposed to be working on school, but I wasn't prepared so they are having life lessons instead. Maybe I'll be ready to start school tomorrow.
Today for snack I served him a heart shaped cake. He proceeded to tell me that he remembers that I (Mommy) ate these when he was a baby in my tummy. I don't remember eating these then, but who knows :)
He was very excited to have one of these for snack because he said he had never tried one of these before.
(The photo-bombers were completely not planned, I had a picture without them, but thought this one was more interesting.)