8. Water. I DO NOT want another kidney stone, so I try to make sure I am drinking enough everyday. It is hard to remember when you are always running around doing stuff with kids, schooling, and working around the house. I have found that if I make a cup of herb tea and let it sit on the counter I will notice it later and pick it up to drink, helping me remember that I need to drink more.
9. An occasional day or several hours "off". Any regular working person has regularly scheduled days off from work. I don't get that as a stay at home mom very often. It's really hard to always have to be dealing with all the problems and struggles that occur
10. An automatic kitchen cleaner. One that I don't need to tell what, when or how to do what ever needs doing. I guess that's still up to me to do or delegate, but it's nice to dream.
Well since #10 wasn't really a reasonable need I'll give you another bonus need.
My bonus need is exercise. Something I really need to do, but don't see it happening. Does running up and down the stairs a few times a day count? I hope so. I also usually park at the end of the parking lot when I go to a store, then I walk as fast as I can (with or without kids) until I get to the door.